End-of-Life Planning and Death Doula Services

LeeAnn brings more than 40 years of experience as a psychologist in private practice. As a certified INELDA (International End-of-Life Doula Association) death doula, she offers compassionate guidance and support for end-of-life planning, as well as bereavement support for loved ones.

You do not need to have a terminal diagnosis to begin planning for the end of your life. I work with individuals and couples of all ages and at every stage of life, helping them thoughtfully consider their wishes and options. If you have received a terminal diagnosis, the planning process is much the same—the primary difference is the timeline.

What I Offer

I offer a compassionate, open-hearted presence and a safe space to explore what matters most to you in your "one wild and precious life."

Services include:

• Planning for your possessions (sometimes called death cleaning) to help organize and simplify what you leave behind.

• Life Review—reflecting on your life, the people and experiences that have been most meaningful, and how you want to spend the time ahead.

• Legacy Work—exploring what you would like to leave behind for those you love or the causes you care about. This may include charitable giving, writing a memoir, organizing photographs, creating a family cookbook, recording stories, or any meaningful project that reflects who you are.

• Advance Care Planning—I collaborate with my niece, Nicole Bartolini, whose expertise includes completing Advance Directives and POLST (Physician Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment) forms.

• Planning for your final days—creating a personalized plan for your death vigil that reflects your values, wishes, and comfort.

• After-death planning—discussing your wishes for your body, obituary, funeral, memorial, or celebration of life.

• Medical Aid in Dying support—for individuals who choose this option, I work alongside your physician to provide emotional support, planning assistance, and presence for you and your loved ones throughout the process.

• Advocacy—supporting you and your loved ones by helping ensure your wishes are understood and honored.

• Companionship—offering a calm, reassuring presence. We can talk, sit quietly together, or simply share the space in whatever way feels most comforting.

• Bereavement support—providing guidance and support to your loved ones after your death.

What I Do Not Provide

While I offer emotional, practical, and planning support, I do not provide:

• Physical assistance with organizing or clearing possessions (I can provide referrals to professional organizers and estate sale services.)

• Medical care or medical advice

• Hands-on personal care

• Medication management

I am happy to connect you with trusted professionals who provide these services.

Fees

My fee for end-of-life planning is $100 per hour.

If you would like me to accompany you during the end-of-life process, we will discuss your specific needs, determine the scope of services, and establish a fee that reflects the level of support required.

A sliding fee scale is available, and I am committed to making these services as accessible as possible.